In Black communities, internalized misogyny has enabled a culture where women are expected to endure harm silently, often in the name of love, sacrifice, or faith. Too many women have witnessed "grace" coddle violent men, wrapped in the language of forgiveness and survival.

While some women will settle for ironing their husband's clothes before he heads out to cheat and call it love, more women are saying absolutely not. Touting struggle love and calling it a God-ordained vocation is simply not appealing where peace of mind is a priority.

White allyship, while loudly professed on social media and in moments of political tension, tends to remain passive and conditional.