While some women will settle for ironing their husband's clothes before he heads out to cheat and call it love, more women are saying absolutely not. Touting struggle love and calling it a God-ordained vocation is simply not appealing where peace of mind is a priority.

White allyship, while loudly professed on social media and in moments of political tension, tends to remain passive and conditional.

All of this often came with major compromises on the woman's part. Their independence, safety, or emotional well-being.